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instead of selling candy bars, cookie dough, and all of the stupid fund raisers that they have all of the time for the school,
You know I have to think back to when weight first became an issue for me, and this really strikes a chord.
See, I grew up overseas and went to British and European schools until I got to high school. The schools I went to there were no such things as parties where the parents brought goodies. There were (best I remember) 2 parties a year - Christmas holidays and summer holidays - and people brought homemade treats, but in moderation. And there were no sodas or juices available. I remember in elementary and what we would call middle school, the options for our morning break were milk, chocolate milk, apple juice, or water - nothing else. You could have fruit or choose one from a selection of tea sandwiches. You picked one of those or went without. Oh, the older kids got to have tea (British style - hot tea with milk and/or lemon). There weren't candy sales (candy and gum was forbidden on school property). If a group wanted to raise money, they held a faire or ran a car wash or ran a raffle or other methods of earning money and fundraising.
(I do remember the year I was in boarding school, sneaking out on a field trip and buying all the forbidden goodies and having a midnight party with the other girls on my floor. Of course we then all spent the next morning in the nurses office because we were all sick to our stomachs!
Oh, and the countries I lived in - there was no TV broadcasting until after 6 p.m. So there was no going home and plopping down in front of the TV. Not unless you were into watching static. Going home meant playing outside and chores.
When I moved back to the States and went to high school it was a whole different world. Our high school had a cafeteria AND a snack bar. The snack bar sold all the usual breakfast goodies in the morning and then hamburgers, hotdogs, corn dogs, and fried beef and bean burritos smothered in chili and cheese (my personal favorite) for lunch. Fries, onion rings, and tater tots rounded out the selection. Guess where most of the kids went every day? Coke machines in every hallway, plus fountain drinks available. Oh yeah there was a salad bar as well - and I used to eat salads thinking I was being healthy. You know the kind - a little lettuce, a little veggie, smothered in cheese, croutons, and creamy ranch dressing.
Then there were the fundraisers. I was in band, German club, and Model UN. In band we sold candy bars and M&Ms. In German club we sold gummy bears, German chocolate, and advent calendars. In Model UN we sold M&Ms and trail mix. And if I wasn't selling something for my groups, there were 20 or 30 other groups selling things available - every club, organization, and class in the school sold some kind of food at some point. There wasn't a day or a class that I didn't have candy or a soda or both on my desk. For 4 years I ate like that. It didn't matter that I was going home and having a healthy dinner that my mom fixed - one evening meal couldn't offset the volume of junk that I was eating during the day.
I went from walking to school every day, playing field hockey 3x a week, and swimming 2x a week, to riding the bus door-to-door and skimming my way through "P.E.", then going home and sitting in front of the TV until dinner time.
And I wonder why, in high school, I went from the skinny kid I'd been, to an overweight, out of shape teen. It's very obvious in the photos of our family - the difference that just a year made between when we were overseas and when we were back in the States.
Of course I've known all of this my whole life - but something about your post, Aphil, just made it so very crystal clear.
I'm not slamming on all schools or cafeterias. I'm really not. I guess this is the first time I've really thought about it linearly; the progression for me from athletic, skinny kid to overweight teen and adult. Because it just continued right through college and on into my adult life.
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