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Originally Posted by DayDreamer26
Sorry if I sound a bit close minded... But it is HARD to change a point of view you have lived with all your life. I (and maybe not just I, but most of us) grew up in a society where Thin = good and Fat = bad. Things might be changing today, but I grew up with that, that's what they taught us. It's hard to change and perceive yourself differently after years of believing it. And if I believe that as well, then maybe I should do something about it.
This sounds something like what my mother would say!
And I will give the same scripture encouragement to you that I give to her::
"When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things."
1 Corinthians 13:11
"So a man thinketh, so is he." Proverbs 23:7
When I was first getting into running (in my 30s), I attended an all women's running workshop. There was a gentleman who was teaching a nutrition class that taught me about "Positive Self Talk". He said, "In order to BE a runner, you have to tell first yourself 'I'm a runner'. So, go home, look in the mirror and for 3x/day tell yourself: "I am a strong, fit runner. I train 3x/week. Today, I will eat to run ___ miles." (in our case, it was 3.2 miles)
I took his advise! And he was right!!
As long as I tell myself: "Krystal, you're fat. You're ugly. You're worthless. You're ____." That is what I will be to myself!!
What do You want to be to yourself?
Are you telling yourself this is what you are OR are you telling yourself one thing and really believing something else??
Daydreamer The struggle IS real!