What a pain about your car, Dagmar. I suppose you don't know of any trustworthy independent repair shops nearby? The dealer ALWAYS tries to upsell me when I go in for service. I was using a shop closer to me for oil change and tire rotation, but lost faith in them when they aired up my tires too high which made them wear out really fast. So I started going to the dealer again. They do a decent job, but are always telling me I need this or that, such as a special oil treatment. The dealer wanted over $1500 for the 120,000 mile service!! My son, who is a crack auto mechanic, said most of that was for "inspections" which are billed at $80 per hour and which don't take nearly as long as Toyota allots for them. So we flew my son down from Washington state and he did the service for about 1/2 the cost including the plane ticket! And he did my front brakes also.
My son (Matt) just started a new job with Boeing. He was a helicopter diesel engine mechanic in the Army for 8 years, then an auto mechanic for two years, and now he'll be working on a couple of military "fixed wing" planes. I'm delighted for him. It's much better pay and benefits, which is crucial because his wife doesn't work and they have a 3 year old boy.
Happy December to all! My concession to the season was to get out the winter and Christmas-themed coffee mugs. We have Christmas lights, but they are under the frost blankets that protect our cactus and succulent gardens from frost, to help add warmth

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