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Originally Posted by Got2BThin
Okay, here it goes ...
I feel the need to fast because I have no motivation to exercise and whatnot -- to me, fasting is an easy way out (whether it truly is or not) I want to lay in bed and cry at night because I'm so disgusted with my body. I have never been this fat in my life and each time I'm in the shower or look in the mirror I can't believe what I see.
Got2BeThin-EVERYONE who has lost a significant amount of weight here at 3FC has been in your shoes. We have all been disgusted with ourselves, and have all cried and felt the way that you do. When I was 211 pounds-I would have loved to have found something that would have taken my weight away in 2 weeks, or in a month. But-it doesn't exist. If it did, we would ALL be thin.
You don't gain 30 or 50 pounds in a month, and you aren't going to lose it in a month. But, you CAN safely lose 10 pounds this month if you really stick with a low calorie eating plan of around 1200-1400 calories a day, and get in regular exercise. In a month, you can be a HEALTHIER 10 pounds lighter. In two months, you can be about 15 pounds lighter.
In 3 months you can be around 20 pounds lighter. If you start now, that is 20 pounds by the holidays. In a healthful way.
Hey-I went from 200 pounds down to about 150 after my first baby, and only a month or so into maintenance I got pregnant AGAIN. Talk about turning right back around and getting back on the fat train again.

The second time I ended up at 211, and am working it off again. This time it is going slower-but-I am still working at it.
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Originally Posted by Got2BeThin
I understand all of this. It's just hard for me to listen to those who say it's the wrong thing to do because this weight it something I desperately want to lose .. and in a very short time. Once I reach my GW, I will then be happy and start to exercise regularly and eat healthy.
Sometimes the truth is hard to hear when you want something really bad. Why don't you take that want, and turn it into motivation to do it the right way. I tell you, I like to eat. As far as an easy way out, I would much rather eat 1200-1400 calories a day and exercise than go 2 weeks with no food. THAT would be torture to me. If you don't like to work out-do something enjoyable. Take the baby for a walk in the stroller. Go to the mall with the baby and window shop. You can walk around the mall and get a really good walk in, in a mor enjoyable atmosphere. Find another mother to walk with. You don't have to do aerobics or something that you don't like. Just MOVE.
I really don't agree with the statement that you will be happy to eat healthy and exercise once you reach goal. It may not seem like it now, but maintenance is the HARDEST part of keeping off weight. Anyone can lose 10 pounds with a little work, but how many people keep that 10 pounds off for the rest of their lives? Healthy maintenance of your weight loss requires a lifestyle change. A lifestyle change that includes eating healthy and exercising for the REST of your life.