Good evening to everyone,
I will write more tomorrow. But, I wanted to send you this story today. I read it on Flylady.net. I hope you like it as much as I do
A man found a cocoon of a butterfly. One day a small opening appeared. He sat and watched the butterfly for several hours as it struggled to force its body through that little hole. Then it seemed to stop making any progress. It appeared as if it had gotten as far as it could, and it could go no further.
So to help the butterfly
He took a pair of scissors and snipped off the remaining bit of the cocoon. The butterfly then emerged easily. But it had a swollen body and small, shriveled wings. The man continued to watch the butterfly, because he expected that, at any moment, the wings would expand out to support the body and the body would contract back.
Neither happened! In fact, the butterfly spent the rest of it's life crawling around with a swollen body and shriveled wings.
It never was able to fly
What the man, in his kindness and haste, did not understand was the restricting cocoon and the struggle required for the butterly to get through the tiny opening were God's way of forcing fluid out of the body of the butterfly and into its wings so that it would be ready for flight once it achieved its freedom from the cocoon. Sometimes struggles are exactly what we need in our lives. If God allowed us to go through our lives without any obstacles, it would cripple us and we would not be as strong as what we could have been. We would never fly!
Remember...what we struggle with makes us strong!
I loved this story. I think sometimes, we all wonder why is life so hard, or why is this happening to me. But when you look at the big picture, it's easier to understand.
Take care, Nikki