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Originally Posted by sugar58
@ GemIAm thank you so much for that. It is exactly what has been going on with me. Very, very insightful! I really feel like I did use food to curb my emotions. Hopefully, I can learn to try to deal with all these new found emotions in a better way.
@Ontchick88 I also am feeling like a crazy person w/ no filter. I feel like a big bully sometimes taking my emotions out on people who don't deserve it. But, like you said this is a work in progress.
I usually have a "big mouth" in general, so my "advice" here is just from experience --no offence intended - I just want to say that the world is not on this journey with you, so everyone else may NOT understand your "lack of filter" and you may really hurt some people or tick someone off, and they may not even know what you're going through right now. If you feel like a bully, or that you said a bit too much, would it hurt to go back today and apologize -- not changing your opinion -- but for how you
expressed your opinion? People accept PMS as some reason for being crabby etc.-- hormonal issues are legit. If you say you're not yourself these days and apologize what can that hurt (other than a bit o' pride I guess). What's the old expression? Something about attracting more bees with honey than with vinegar or something like that? Keep your words sweet, for one day you may have to eat them. (Hey- did I make that one up or is that another "oldie"? It seems pretty good to be my own original thought, but if it is I'll need to start making bumper stickers! LOL)