Just wanted to report that I've been using Eucerin Calming Creme twice a day for about a week, and my skin is MUCH better. No idea if that's because the flare-up is over, or because of the lotion, but I'll keep using it until it doesn't work.
I chose the Eucerin because it was the easiest to find, and one of the cheapest, but if/when it stops working I'll definitely try out the other suggestions.
Thanks, everyone!