October seemes to be bad news month for me. Just found out that my only real family - my younger cousin and his wife and 2 kids - is breaking up. My cousin and his wife have been separated since April (they told almost no one) and divorce is in the cards now. Two kids, aged 13 (as of yesterday) and 9. I'm so

for all of them.
I took my niece out for her birthday on Sunday and that's how I found out. She was acting so nervous and weird that I emailed her mom. She emailed back the news.
I'm hoping they can get through this without it becoming too brutal for anyone involved. Don't know any details and will not pry. I have invited each parent to come over if they want to talk.
I will continue to take my nieces out for things, like I have been doing for 2 years now. That's what support I can offer so I will do it. If they want to talk about things I will listen but I won't press them.
And I have been eating and eating and eating since Friday. I can't really remember another time when I've received so much depressing/frightening news in such a short time.
The event I was so looking forward to (Cesar Millan) seems kind of inconsequential now. As does how much I weigh. SIGH.
Dagmar
