[MelloFatto]

Originally Posted by DezziePS

I think I would be less direct about it at first. Like, don't make it seem like you're ragging on him in particular, just start talking about men in general. Like, "It was only recently that I totally realized that we're so young and good looking, we shouldn't settle for anything less than the man of our dreams!" Be subtle about it- talk about what you look for in a guy, and while you're talking about how much you value trust in a relationship and he's calling her every ten minutes interrupting you, maybe it will make something sink in, and maybe she will bring it up.

If you want to be more direct about it, I think when he calls for the second or third time when you're together, you should just wait for her to get off the phone and say, "Oh, wow, you know that would totally drive me crazy having him calling every few minutes! How do you do it?" That way it would be casual and she could talk about it or not, but she would know that people are NOTICING and it's weird for him to do that.

Or you could act really concerned every time he calls (because the only reason a NORMAL person would call someone that often is if there was an emergency). Like, "Oh my gosh- that sounded urgent...is everything ok??" repeated every time he calls.

That sounds like a good idea.