[LBH]

Figures sex talk would bring him out...

[GatorgalstuckinGA]

hey all. Well today has been insane and definately emotional. Boss is out of town this week, so it is currently 4.50 and i'm finally getting a break. I didn't eat my lunch until 3.15 and that was eaten between working up rooms. I've had a rough day. Lots of apts and drop offs. To make it worse, one of my favorite dog/clients had emergency surgery to remove a mass i saw on x-rays. When i went in there..it was bad. It looks like pancreatic cancer (Very bad cancer for doggies). It was attacking the small intestines...so i had to call owner and let him know what i though and give the wonderful news that i didn't think his dog had much longer to live. It really sucks....i like the guy a lot. Very happy guy who LOVEs his dog...will do any thing to help her. He was crying on the phone when i was finished. Then to top it off...another great dog/client came in for follow up...her dog has been diagnosed with lymphoma...and this dog is looking bad too. I think she may have to euthanize the dog soon. God today it seems like i'm the messenger of bad news. So as you can tell..sort of a sad work day...but hopefully i'll make it through...only a 2 more hours left.
Sheila - sorry about DH...but you've got to give it some time...i know it sucks...but it can take a while for the grieving process
Roo?????? what up bud???What surgery...hope it goes well
Happy - sorry about your mom...but from what i've remembered in the past...your mom has been bad toward DS and DH so better off not calling her. I wouldn't recommend asking her to help. I think it would be too much on you. I know you are worried about post op care and who's going to watch after DS...but i think the stress she will cause you will make matters worse.
lisa - good luck on the interview
mj - must be a busy day...you are quiet today..or did you not have your DEW yet LOL
Mary - hang in there..maybe the renovations won't make you broke
Goddess- glad to hear you are getting to see GD. hope things look better for you soon. Hang in there girl.
alright guys...i have to get back to work...ugghh only a bit more time left. Talk to you guys later.

[RXZephyr]

Originally Posted by LBH

Figures sex talk would bring him out...

Oh oh oh! Like a knife. Right in my heart.



Am I that predictable?

[sheila1971]

Roo

Real funny there roo. I totally didn't get it! And as for you saying about your fat cranky and depressed, well you need to start thinking differently. For one I think if I think I am fat I won't give a darn. You quit talking that way Mr. We love ya!

[sheila1971]

Lauren: You are soo funny!!!

[RoadRunner]

ok Roo-I got it and laughed then felt bad that maybe it wasnt a joke???Haha too funny!!!
Lauren--Totally agree!!! Men... '
BTW--COngrats on the house!!!!

Ok..been sick all last week--no excercise--no loss and feeling miserable..

GG--That is how I feel at work when the MD's tell families/patients bad news..It just makes me sick....
Sheila--take care!!!
Hello Goddess, JKLA, mjoste and all others!!!

Hmmmmmm..maybe that is what I need to make me less mean and grumpy???and count as excercise?????
RR

[RXZephyr]

Originally Posted by RoadRunner

ok Roo-I got it and laughed then felt bad that maybe it wasnt a joke???Haha too funny!!!

GOOD! SOMEONE got the joke - us morning people have to stick together.

Originally Posted by RoadRunner

Lauren--Totally agree!!! Men... '

Or maybe not!



You guys are all great. You really make my day.

[lppennington]

Sheila, I only said that because that is what I was told when my ex-FIL passed. Of course we weren't divorced then, and I was the bad person of the family. I never really got along with him, we often agreed to disagree. (Actually that was really the begining of the end.) Long story short ~ it took about a year before he really could grieve and let it out. Of course every one is different. I do like the other idea though!!

Roo, I like everyone else thought the same until I saw the explanation. Maybe you could explain sooner?

GG, sorry about such a bad day. Hopefully tommorrow will be better.

Lisa

[sheila1971]

Lisa your story sounds just like mine we got along the first 16 years but the last 2 were ****.

[newFannie07]

Hey all. Still here lurking. Been very depressed. It takes too much energy to post.

Sheila - I don't have any new suggestions for you, but I know that we always hurt the ones we love the most. I know when my father and grandmother died 2 weeks apart back in 2002 (both unexpected), I was a total basket case. I thought I would never stop crying. DH was there for me the whole time, just let me cry and cry. He was just there. Just remember there is nothing you can do to make him feel better and as a man (sorry Rx) he is probably bottling a lot of it up. Counseling isn't a bad idea if he'll agree. I didn't have counseling and I still survived. Thank God for DH. He still is understanding when I cry about it. Oh, he did "make" the dogs love me extra the whole time. I remember being really soothed by the dumb dogs. Go figure.

Hanna - I am so sorry to hear of your cyst and your toxic mother. My goodness, you would think she might be worried about her own flesh and blood! I really hope everything turns out OK and you are VERY strong. Better woman than me. Vent here when needed. Lord knows I whine enough.

GG - Sorry about the doggies. What a rough day. Makes my crappy work week seem like a breeze. Hopefully tomorrow will be better.

Sorry to all the others who have posted that I haven't mentioned. I am too sad. I know it's stupid and my life is nothing compared to most of yours. I just can't shake this.

Kerri