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I don't think you're being bossy at all! I crave this information!! And it's really, really helpful. I try to take everything that I've learned and work it in, and it's getting a bit easier, and it doesn't take me as long to plan my day each day that I do it. I did a bit better for tomorrow 33% Fat, 42% Carb, and 25% Protein. After reading your dilemma about carbs, I may talk to my doc about keeping my carbs a bit lower.
Okay cool sweetie! I am only able to give ya as much info as I know and I do know what is working for me. I am a lil frustrated with that bread thing though so e'll keep our eye out! "33% Fat, 42% Carb, and 25% Protein" That sounds good!
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Funny you should mention that... I did fit a choclate bar in to my diet today because I hadn't had one in a few days. I think that might have been the mistake. That's when I started fighting with myself. I love myself, I hate when we fight lol.
That could of done it. Also you need to realize even if you can fit it in which if you really need it as a treat then go ahead but the fat and cals in that is not created equal! I don't know how to explain it except that stuff like that goes "straight to your hips" so to speak.

You will also find that the less you have sugar, the less you will crave it.
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I'm very hesitant about what I read online. It's all so conflicting, and generic. I like to talk to my doctor about this kind of stuff because she knows me, and she doesn't base her responses on the average yadda yadda yadda. I would talk to your doc about this, especially because he/she knows about your medical history, and that of your parents.
Well I wrote a long response about that in sugar babys reply. I am not familiar with the doc I do have. I know if I walked in there right now and didn't say anything it would be, "You need to lose weight and exercise!" That would piss me off to no end it would be like buddy, you have no idea!!

I walk about 2000 minutes a month and have lost 63 pounds already and am continuing.

I do want to go and get a physical though maybe in december. I really wish I could get ahold of all the med records of my mom.

I have talked to my aunts about this stuff and they say that the docs tell them with my mom she had so many other things going on too. Ya know? They don't feel her health problems have a bearing on them at all.
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Apparently, hahaha. This was the hardest weekend food-wise I've ever had, so I spent a lot of time on here trying to occupy my thoughts
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Awww hun! Well I am glad I can be hear for ya! If you ever need someone to talk to just shoot me a pm and when I get on we can always im. I am a s.a.h.m. so i am able to check the board usually a few times a day in between chores and kids and buses and hubby and making food, etc. lol
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Well I'm here finally. What a lousy evening I had. I have the worst family members... no I don't I just have very high anxiety inducing family members who are fat phobic gossipers and love to talk bad about my kids and my family. I'm so mad!!!!! To have the nerve to talk bad about me in front of my daughter and then start in on my son! DD didn't know what to do and was so upset. After all, she's only 10. Good grief! Sorry I'm venting but all this stupidity almost made me go for the donuts that my kids brought home after being with the "family". Did I say Adam's family? I didn't give in to the donut I'm happy to say. I drank water instead.
If it were your family I would of said give em ****! But since it is his, oh brother. Maybe you can have him talk to them? That is terrible talking about your kids bad!!! I wouldn't ever want to go again! WTG on resisting temptation!
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I'm no sugar free fan of anything but lately I've been really developing a taste for sugar free jello and it's TASTY!!
I just got that sugar free jello a few days ago but haven't tryed it yet. diet orange and diet rootbeer are really good and they do taste sweet to me too!
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They do have sugar free chocolate but you have to watch the fat grams in those things. You could try that too.
I seen at the store ff and sf pudding! you add ff milk to it. I don't have ff milk on hand but I might pick some up next time and try low fat instead!
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jasmine Soo soo sorry to hear about your parents! I would be really motivated diet wise if my parents had had diabetes too.
Thanx hun. It is very rough. I was very close to my mom, she also had cirrhosis of the liver and hepatitis and a pacemaker. PLUS she was popping like 13 different prescription pills from the time I was pretty young. She used to be addicted to street drugs before she became a christian and got married and had me and my bro. So it is like she changed one addiction for another. I really feel all that had a big effect on wearing her body out to. The reason she couldn't get on the liver transplant list was because her kidneys were also really bad! My dad what he had trouble with was his foot. Wound up having to get half of it cut off. Then a few years later I believe he was going in for another surgery and had a heart attack because of it.

This food thing is just such a nitemare it just makes me feel like they won't let us eat anything any more. I am trying to do what is right and it just feels like they keep changing the plan on me.
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What a terrible disease to have. Speaking of disease, the cancer that I was diagnosed with having in spring of 05 was fallicular lymphoma. It's a non hogkinsons cancer and it's not curable but treatable for a an average of 10 years. I had an intense cocktail of chemo for about 5 months and went into remission where I'd just better stay, thank you very much!
I pray you will stay in remission too! There are alot of fruits on the worlds greatest foods health site that help fight off cancer and stuff. That must be really hard to have gone thru!
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I feel so much better and I'm trying to get my body into shape from all the sterioids and garbage that it went through. PLus I'm fat on top of all of that.
I hear ya! Steroids will do that to ya!
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My doctor said that my metabolism should be kicking in now that it's been over a year and I can see that it is. Earlier this year I tried to exercise for at least 1hour a day and many times 2 hours but my body couldn't handle it and it took 31/2 months just to lose 4 pounds. I was so discouraged that I quit. But things are looking better now and I'm ready to have a life.
That would be very depressing. I am glad it is working for you now.
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You know, my sister is a nurse and she always is scolding me for getting medical information off the net. I have found some great sites for my cancer as well as other sites too. I was looking into liver detoxing at one point.
I know what ya mean about being careful on the net. My dh gets so upset and he says there are studies out there where they can find something wrong with everything! I do know that there is alot of great info out there though. Info that I wouldn't get just from a doctor or a nurse. Like for instance if you go see a doc and you tell him you want to lose weight, they might give ya the food pyramid and say to exercise and eat more fruits and veggies. That is true but they don't say why. They don't have the time to explain it. That is where the net comes in handy. I have learned alot. I do feel that I know more about health and food than even some so called nutritionist.
Like for instance I ran into a friend the other day from town and the poor thing is 344 pounds!!! She said her nutritionist put her on a diet of 1200 cals a day!!!! That is rediculous! And she is not able to do it. She could go on a 2000 cal diet and lose weight at this point!!! All that 1200 is doing is making her hungrier! and want to binge!
I am going to look this wheat bread thing up more, talk to some of the long term maintainers too in that forum etc, maybe hit the diabetic forum and try to get some more insight. Unfortunately because this is my health this is too important to just pass off and say, oh its just the net. What if they are right? For along time people thought white bread and white rice and all that was okay for you and now they are finding out it turns to sugar quickly! They are even thinking of redoing the food pyramid with putting that stuff on the top with the sugars! I just can't afford to be wrong.
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Jasmine I think you just need to take a balance in whatever you do and just keep adding better whole foods into your diet. White flours and sugars are known to be so unhealthy.
I know that is what my hubby says, all I can do is my best. (He also says he wants to throw the p.c. out the window cause he sees how upset it makes me but that is another story!

) That is what I am trying to do cause what my hubby thinks is the biggest problem is inactivity! People have been baking bread for centuries! So now all of a sudden it is so bad for us?

He thinks it is because people are not burning it off!! Which makes sense. Cause you can eat too much good healthy food and still be fat. It is about cals burned and whether you can burn what you eat.
I try not to read too much stuff about diabetics cause I am not one and don't want to start thinking like I am one, if that makes sense. But I do know that I need to research and find out enough so that I won't become one. I have also read the best way to prevent diabetes is to start walking! That is why I am so vigilant about it. When I get upset and feel like the weight is not coming off quick enough or I am plateauing I tell myself that the weight isn't what is important(even though it is). Me eating healthy and exercising is. No matter what I need to get off my butt and walk every day even if I think it is not working, especially when I feel it isn't working cause that is when I need to double the effort!
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I have heard sprouted wheat bread is the best.
I seen something about that. The bread from heaven!

What is it called again and why is it so wonderful? I have looked for it at one store but didn't see it. I am doing a grocery trip today so I want to look for it!
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It's so hard to know what to do. Like mande said, maybe just talking it over with your doctor or a naturopath or dietician might help you.
Well I am on Medical so I have a doc but have not ben to see him yet. The one time ealier this year I wanted to go for a physical I wasn't able to cause my purse got stolen with my ins card and soc sec card!
I don't know, I have gotten so jaded about all this that I think I know more than the doc!

I know that sounds funny, but really, I have spent alot of time getting to the point where I am now foodwise. I can't think of anything they could tell me that I don't know. I would like to go to find out how my body is doing over all thru tests and what not. Maybe this December I will set an apt.
As far as diabetes goes I really dont want to believe it can be inherited. Type 2 you become that way basically from your body not being able to handle all the food you put in it. I feel where the family thing ties in is because you learn your eating/exercise habits from them! It has taken me along time to break this terrible cycle. By the time my parents started trying to cut back on eating they were already diabetic.
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You never know... the next thing you know we'll all be grazing out in the back pasture cause nothing is good for us even the grass..
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I hear ya!!
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This is where my faith in God kicks in and I just have to trust him to keep me until it's my time, ya know? We can only do so much to make ourselves healthy.
I know I just have to let go and let God. He knows I am doing my best and that I am searching for answers. I do pray that he helps me to lose this weight healthfully and shows me what to do to get there. I really feel he is the one who led me to cal counting. I had lost about 40 pounds since June 2005 but felt like it was hit and miss. I knew some of my portions were still too big and I plateaud at like 240 for a few months it seemed (From Jan - april of this year I hadn't been working on weight and walking at all due to a difficult pregnancy that resulted in a misc due to an iud! SO that set me back on time too) and that is when I really felt like I needed to research cal counting and do that. I was 280 summer of 2005 and got down to 250 by x~mas of last year, but by August 28 I was 238 and had only lost 12 pounds since kicking back into gear at the end of april. So I had lost only 12 pounds over 4 months! I have lost 21 pounds in the 9 weeks since then. So cal counting has really helped!! It was the big push I needed and it makes sense now. It is just a numbers game!
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I can sure understand your frustration though. But on a brighter note, you ought to be totally commended for all that exercising you've been doing! MY WORD! I need to get that much in. You must feel great all the way around!
Thanx for the commendations!! Yeah it does feel great! Sometimes when I am walking and thinking about how good this is for my body I thank God that I am able to do this. So many people can't. I think the big thing I want to focus on is over all health. I think diabetes happens when your liver can't filter out all the fat and the sugar stores too quickly. I have read about it but am not good at resaying it. But what I am trying to say is the imp. thing is to get this weight off. You don't see a skinny person have type 2 diabetes.
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Oh and btw jasminethere's a test you can take on the 6 week body makeover that can help you determine what kinds of foods your body metabolizes best. It's really neat. It's free too. The test is. Check it out. My husband and I have different body types so he can tolerate more protein and carbs than I can. I really can't have a lot of carbs and sugars. Since I've cut down on them my stomach (indigestion) has went to almost nothing. I notice if I eat "cheap" carbs and not good carbs that I don't digest them as well. I feel gross too. Maybe that might help with your dilema?
Cool! Where is the test at?
Thanx so much for listening to me whine girls!
That is just something that scares the heck out of me though!!!
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Morning sweetie!! Well I am sorry you had such a bad weekend! I wonder if you are allergic to something? Tell us how the book turns out!!
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2 pounds down this week.
Still haven't done great with the exercise, but it's better than nothing.
I hope everyone has a great week!
That is great news!!! WTG!!! Just think when you do start exercising you can lose even more!!
Well ladies I am feeling better this morning and I know that I am doing the right things health wise and exercise wise and I just have to let God help with the rest. I will not accept defeat and I will not let myself get into the mindset of no matter what I do it will be bad for me. There has to be some balance here. Sheesh!
to all
Well last nite went almost as planned except 3 of the kids went to a bday party and I had made 8 burgers! When raw they are 4 oz and after cooked they are 2.5 So I was a lil bad and had 2 of them instead of one but the cals for two are still only 300 altogether! plus 10 fat grams. Really not bad. I had one bun. I did splurge with a slice of real cheddar cheese though. I went ahead and nixed on the blueberry muffin though since I had the extra burger.
SO my cals wound up at 1732, fat % was 27, carbs were 47%, protein was 26%, not bad at all!! I will go back and edit my food post up there. Oh and I did have some pretzels. But I substituted out one slice of bread and I only had one cup of coffee cause we ran out of creamer!
I am in a good mood today! It is time to go grocery shopping today so that should be an all day event on the bus a few times. I am also going to go out and visit hubby for lunch, probably bring a sandwich for us. I read a great review on a sub shop that is like an hour from me.
lol But it reminded me of a great way to get the vinegar and olive oil in my food more! How does a sub with cheese and trukey and lowfat ham and tomatoes and lettuce and a lil bit of oil and vinegar on the top sound?
I know subway has wheat bread but I dont think it is the legitimate whole wheat bread. You know 100%? I want to see what they got at the store etc today cause that just sounds so yummy!! Has anyone tryed pita pockets? Are they any good?
Well the good news is I am down another .25 pound!!! Whoohooo!! I am starting the week off right!!! So I am officially down to 217 today. Hooray!!