
Hello everyone!
Great minds think alike, dontcha think? About a week ago, I was thinking how much fun it would be to see each other’s pictures – then I see the same suggestion posted on our list. Yesterday while I was running I was fantasizing about a get together in the future, where we could spend a weekend talking and laughing and generally having a great time. Today I read Cyan’s post suggesting the same thing! Excellent! I say we go for it. Who would think seven people of varying ages, living in 5 different states and 2 different countries would meet and, even better, bond on the internet? Isn’t life great!

By the way, cjunk, Hamilton is in Canada, right?
Lisa – I am so impressed…what a role model! You have this continuing pain and still you do strenuous Step Circuit Class, and then go for a veggie subway.
A late answer to your question from Lady the Nurse: Yes, the substitute doctor can treat you. Doctors can come across as authority figures and make it difficult four us to feel like an intelligent adult. Try to remember you are paying the doctor, thus she works for you. You have the right to her time, the right to ask questions and the right to demand appropriate treatment. You also have the right to find another doctor if the one you are seeing isn’t doing everything possible to make you well. Your job is to be as informed as you possibly can. It will empower you and you will feel more comfortable asking questions. And, by the way, if you don’t understand the answer, ask the doctor to explain it again. Then if you don’t like the answers, ask for more alternatives. You Go Girl! You are entitled to a resolution to your problem.
Cjunk – I think it’s great that you were there for your friend and resisted eating a second dinner. Don’t spend another minute beating your self up.

Let it go. You slipped, you’re human. You are still winning this battle and besides, you didn’t order the super size! Tell you what, if you promise not to feel guilty anymore, I won’t beat myself up over eating that raw pie dough dipped in uncooked pumpkin pie today. Deal?

By the way, your new friend sounds awesome.
Annie – You really are determined! I'm so proud of you for being able to continually look for the bright side. I rode the bike 40 minutes for you last night. Hope I didn’t tire you out too much. Heehee.
Cyan – That info on the gallbladder was excellent. Good job! And like I said earlier, I love the idea of a reunion. What’s in the middle, Chicago? About starting a new thread -. I didn't realize there is a limit on how long a thread can be. On the other hand, a new thread for a new year sounds like a good idea.
Reina-mia - I like that quote very much. I will print it out and paste it to my bathroom mirror as a daily reminder. Thanks. Kickboxing! Sounds like fun! I saw a guy on tv this morning doing a work out using standard boxing punches, jumping and kicking. I tried to follow him for a bit and it was exhausting. I’m going to try to find his show again. He had tapes for sale, but I’m not about to pay $70 for a few tapes.
Miki – How are you doing? We haven’t heard from you for a bit.
I’m sitting here chuckling as I read about each of your trouble spots, and thought I’d add my 2 cents. For me it’s not my waist or my hips or my stomach, though they certainly are ample. I hate my boobs! They are WAY to large. I want very much to join the Itty Bitty Titty Club!

Every time I resist food I think about getting down to a normal, or even better, a small size bra.

Soap Box Time: I think we all have the same problem – reliving our regrets instead of giving ourselves credit for our successes. It’s as if our failures – no wait, I don’t like that word- our mistakes are written in big bold letters and our successes are in teeny tiny anyone-could-do-that letters. Well! Time to turn things around, don’t you think?
I challenge each of us each night for a week to write down at least 5 things we did well during the day.
Don’t discount anything.Honestly, some days just getting out of bed would make it to the top of my list! This will help us to focus on the positive instead of the negatives. If you like you can post your lists here, but that’s totally optional. What do you think – are you all up to it?
Tomorrow is Turkey Day and I’m going to follow the advice of a very smart lady I know and eat turkey and veggies first.
Take care,
Lady
