I have missed you all.I know you all knew I wasn't here due to work...it's always that is the case with me

Really it was ok, because I had an unexpected $600 expensive together with a 45,000 mile service on one of our cars a couple of weeks ago, so this OT will take care of that total $800 expense.
Not only was a I working a lot, I was dealing with some work drama. I had a great review from both managers this year, words like exceptional year,
very proficient, sought after by others for mentoring, created time saving procedures..and then they tell me that in ratings they heard from 2 section heads (people a level down from them, one by two levels down from them), that they wondered if I have a good grasp on calendar management because 3 weeks ago, I moved, or shortened their 1:1 time with their managers.
They asked me to please be very careful about doing that. I was floored!!! I did go back to the calendar (I always print a copy of it two weeks out before I start changing things and I could prove that I moved one because the SH had a conflict--now mind you I couldn't give them the full hour they usually get but they got 45 minutes, and the others had to do with the fact that our GM & President of Beauty put meetings on the calendar for the other times and they did it that morning.
So, what I said to my managers was that I would most certainly take it as coaching for the future and I would be going back to see what happened so that I could learn from it. Then I placed a copy of the 2 weeks before calendar and then a snap shot of the calendar after the changes so they could see what happened. I didn't say a word, just left a copy on their desks and said, FYI. (of course I have a copy of it in my CMA file!)
Let's just say that it has me thinking about how loyal I am to my managers and do personal things to help them out, like taking paperwork to their house on my way home (and it's not really on the way) because they left something at work, or the wife forgot her meds at home and they were flying to CA for the week, so I go get them and send them express to CA and wait for them to pay me back when they return.
Our when their kids come into the office with them for work because they have to go to a doctor appointment, and the boss has a couple of meetings, could I just check on them and keep them occupied. From now on, when that happens, I will say (with a smile)...I would love to but I have a meeting across the street I need to go to.
From here on out, it's professional and my usual nice self, but sweet...nope..no place it in the work place anymore for me.
My managers did say they realized I have a very heavy work load and that maybe it was time to redistribute some things and could I take a look at it and give them some feedback on what might need to be handed off to our other 2 admins and maybe even to some of the SH's. Oh, you bet I will!

In the end I did get my 1 rating with a sentence that the feedback was to help me so next year this sort of thing didn't happen again in ratings. I asked if perhaps we could meet qrtly to go over things during the year (like they do with the other people the manage--Admin's always get their time pushed back or rescheduled because of business needs, so usually I am lucky if I get to meet with them at all before the end of year performance reviews, same way for other Admins) and that way they could gather any thing that might be noticed by the SH and corrected in a timely manner and hopefully by the end of the year, the SH were satisfied with the "changes" that were made and they didn't see it happening again.
From here on out, it's professional and my usual nice, helpful self, but sweet and give up my time with managers when it comes time to discuss how things are going, or needs that I have for my career...nope..no place it in the work place anymore for me.
OK..rant over! Thanks for listening
Laura: Congratulations on your 20 yr work anniversary! That is quite an accomplishment. Sorry you are sore from the exercise but really, it's a good thing. Remember..lots of water to drink and stretching to help that.
Annie: It sounds like you are getting in a lot of nice exercise! Are you finding that you have more energy? I usually do.
Dee: I hope your massage was wonderful! How are you feeling? I keep you in my prayers, my dear friend.

Terra: What is your user name of My Fitness pal? I would like to find you and friend you. There are several of us on here that use it (at least off and on--I need to start again..doing that TODAY!). What is paratransit?
Happy: Your FB pictures from Madeline Island were so beautiful. It sounds so serene there.
Ceejay: I think we all have thought "maybe I will go just a bit shorter with the haircut" and then thought "Oh no!" Hey..it's hair and it grows back.

I hope you had a wonderful birthday. I missed it here but I did catch it on FB.
My father-in-law had his eyelids done 2 years ago do to them bothering his vision. It was all paid for by Medicare as it was deemed medically necessary.
He got along great with it. Looked bad for about a week but then after that, he looked great! I kept teasing him and saying "you look refreshed". People tell him he looks younger and I always wink and say "well..he had a little "work" done! ..just like the movie stars! "
Shad: 4 more weeks.....hang in there!
Michelle: I enjoyed your bubble run pictures and all the pics you have from your recent 5ks. I so miss doing them. I think I'm going to do one at Thanksgiving for the "Turkey Trot" and then get my gel shot right after. My knee isn't too pad right now. But I can have another one in October. I'll see if I can train without pain and then wait until after the race. My knees always hurt after that. DH wants to do one and I can do it if we walk.
Ok..I need to get some things done around here. DH went to church and I skipped. I just wanted some time along where I could organize and just take my time. That work drama stole energy from my soul and I need some time to myself to just piddle around.
Have a great day ladies!

And... I noticed that just about everyone had to pick up and handle those tomatoes so towards the end I decided I really didn't want them even if I got the last bid
One couple has a cabin on Madeline Island where we stayed this week. They offered a 2 day stay at their cabin, a round trip ticket for the ferry and a $50 gift certificate for dinner at the marvelous place we ate at. I bid on that too but the final bid was $637 - too rich for my blood but all in all - that was about what you'd pay in season. I was glad they did well - we have some huge building related expenses for both the shelter and the thrift shop. Today I have a meeting with the ladies who will take over handling the books at the shop. Several of the husbands are coming along for various reasons and we are going to put them all to work looking at the roof leak while we organize
Yikes, it sounds like transferring cell phones is as big of a PITA as swapping out computers. But then again, I guess the smartphones are very much mini computers in their own right.
I have to go get dressed so I can be one of the first ones there. Will come back for personals.