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Originally Posted by ShaddenA
I am going to start the MRC program on Nov. 4th, wish me luck I'm so scared because I just don't know what to expect for the pre-conditioning. I am not telling many that I'm doing this because they won't understand why I think I have to pay someone to help me lose the weight. They will see it as a waste of money for something that I could do myself. I have some friends that for the first time in a long time want me to go out with them on Saturday after I am supposed to start the program. I'm assuming that drinking any alcholic beverages are definately out of the plan now I'm trying to think of reasons I cannot go. I don't mind not drinking, I'm not much of a drinker anyways but they would still wonder why I wasn't.
Welcome! Don't worry too much about pre-conditioning. It's hard to sort of detox from the carbs, but we all did it and you will survive!

I avoided a lot of social situations at first b/c I didn't want to explain. Now, I realize, explaining that your losing weight and how you're doing it is part of the journey to accepting yourself. I am not embarrassed anymore that I had to have help. Being overweight is not a character flaw or a lack of will power! It's very difficult and MOST people cannot do it without help. Now, when people ask, I am very upfront about it and proud that I was strong enough to ask for help.
Now, avoiding the situations at first b/c you're afraid you'll be tempted to eat off plan...different story! It takes a while to gather the will. You're right - no alcohol. That actually helped me a ton b/c alcohol really lowers my willpower.
Good luck and feel free to ask all the questions you need here - this is a terrific, supportive group!