My bf had a cat 7yrs old, when I moved in 2 yrs ago but has since moved away b/c at the time I had 2 dogs. Neither of them very big just that they're dogs so she moved in next door at bf's parents house. She comes for a visit but won't come inside just on the doorstep. She's not very friendly either, and we have a little 3 yr old boy that runs around and we don't want her scratching him which she would if she had the chance. So that problem was solved when she moved to the 'retirement home' next door.

I want the new kittie to be nice, so would holding her and petting her make her more nice?? Sounds like a silly question but I really don't want another one like Babes, she so tempermental. Thanks everyone