Those openings in the nursing hospital gowns don't work well for ANYONE! I wonder who the heck invented them anyway. The best advice I have is to use the ones with the shoulder snaps and unsnap them.

Hi ladies,
I just had a failed vbac with my second child just this past Jan 2009. And I am still hurt by it that I cry and cry. So now with two c-sections I know that it will be hard for me to find a dr who will allow me to have a vba2c. It's true your second c-section is easier and you heal a little quicker, but there is still pain because it is a major surgery. I hated it due to the fact that I have a one year old (almost 2) wanting to play with her and I couldn't because I could barely move little alone bend down. It broke my heart because she would pull me down on the floor to play with her and I had to tell her no.

Does anyone know how to get in contact with "GreatBigMonsterMomma", I noticed that she is from San Antonio and had a vba2c and that is where I am from. And I would love to know what doctor she had that let her try for a vba2c. Please help! I tried to pm her but it tells me that I at least need to post 10 times before I could send a private message to anyone and I just registered a couple of days ago. If anyone could let her know that I am trying to reach her or if you are reading this GreatBigMonsterMomma please write to me. This really determines if I will have another child in the future because I can not have another c-section without a TOL again. Than you so much everyone.