Yay! I'm over here doing my happy dance.
Oh, weight gain. I've never worried about it, to be honest. When I got pregnant with Esther, I weighed 182, which is like 30lb over
my ideal and about 55 over the official ideal, and I gained about 35lbs. With Linda, I started out 10lbs heavier & gained I think 22lbs. With Bobbie I started out 100lbs over my ideal weight and wound up with a net loss of 10lbs, though I put on 23lbs from my low point (a
lot of that was fluid, though).