You are gorgeous how you are -- and will be on your wedding! Your intended loves you for YOU!
Trainer is right -- if you lose inches, this is what changes dress sizes. Not weight, so who cares where weight is?
You can also change dress, change foundation garments, etc. to flatter and minimize tummy, so don't stress out about your clothes. You are celebrating your union, not the dress, the party stuff, etc.
Brown stuff is called acanthosis nigricans and comes from excess insulin spilling out through the skin. Neck, armpits, elbows, knees, groin, ankles, etc. They can fade, but only when your blood sugars are in check.
http://www.driscollchildrens.org/dia...0questions.asp
I am trying to fade mine, and it takes a while of balanced eating. You might want to check it all out with an endocrinologist. For a time I had to go on Metformin but got to where I could come off it.
GL!
A.