ive posted something similar before but another friend is pregnant..(her second)

more tests for me next month for progesterone etc to figure out why ive lost 5 little ones... feel so deflated

got that feeling in my tummy like when you have really really bad news..like a sick feeling of not having any control over this...

been trying for nearly 3 years now..starting to feel really low and thinking about other options but they seem so frightening and confusing...

I'm sorry

It took my cousin ten years to conceive and she was on all sorts of fertility medications and so on.

Then finally one day she said she'd had enough and was done with the medications. Her and her husband then moved to Sweden and BAM she was pregnant! It was funny cuz the family didn't even want her to move a muscle for fear of losing the baby. But she carried to term and now has THREE kids!

I don't know what happened- or what's in the water in Sweden- but maybe her deciding to not stress anymore helped her and can help you?

Best of luck! I hope the doctors can figure out what's wrong.

I'm not a doctor, but I think you might want to be tested for lupus. My friend had a series of miscarriages, and then she was diagnosed with lupus. The lupus antibodies made her blood clot and it would starve the babies in the womb. She did have 2 children. During the pregnancy she took blood thinners (very dangerous, but necessary) and she was able to carry him to almost 35 weeks.

Good luck to you!