Huzzah! DH got approved for his green card today, in 3-6 weeks he will be an official conditional permanent resident (condition being that we remain married for another year)! Whew, that was a huge weight off our shoulders. We were planning on going somewhere fancy for dinner tonight to celebrate, but #1, my WI is in the morning and dinner out would surely affect it, and #2, I am trying to disassociate food with emotion and reward to the greatest extent possible. Sure, we are ecstatic, we want to celebrate, but
must it be with what would invariably be a high-point meal? So we decided we will go to a movie tomorrow night instead

Just as celebratory, something special for us, but not food-centered!
Mod - I go through phases like that too. I have absolutely no advice for you because I am terrible at pulling myself out of those ruts on purpose - usually I just wake up one day weeks later and say, well, enough's enough, back to it Jaime! And off I go as if nothing happened. Try not to beat yourself up. Perhaps you just need some off-time? I'm sure you'll come back to it full force eventually.
Swae - I'm on my second go-round with Flex too. The first time worked out great but I gained it back... Not happenin' this time, no siree! As for the pizza, sometimes I'm totally disgusted by the idea of delivery pizza (weird, huh?), then others I can't get enough. I don't know why this happens. So it goes. I look forward to seeing you post more so we can get to know you!
Michelle - DH is from Brazil. We were both students at a school in Ontario at the time - he was my TA for a philosophy class

though we didn't start dating til a year after I stopped being his student

After I graduated I came back to VA for grad school and we got married

And hey, if you're gonna cut your feet up, it might as well be with supercute shoes!
As for the how you spend your points question - I'm going to be a fence sitter here. Sometimes (like this week), FPs go to cookies and chips and ice cream. Others they go to a really nice meal out (or a whole nice evening) without worrying about how much it'll "cost" me. Then others I just can't get enough of the healthy stuff so I pile on extra servings of whole grains, prepared veggies, fresh summer fruit, healthy fats, etc etc. I DO notice a difference in my weight loss with these different kinds of weeks - I never lose as well when I'm spending the extras on junk, but I will usually see a (small) loss. However - I still have weeks where I spend my points on junk, knowing perfectly well it may jeopardize my WL for a week - I feel like having those weeks helps me stay on track overall, long-term, because I end up feeling more comfortable with making the changes and don't get too stressed if I really want movie theater popcorn, you know? When you start resenting your way of eating, you are never gonna be able to stick with it. So me and the WW WOE have a good relationship
Manick - Thanks for the thoughts

Everything workeda out!
steph - Hey!

I remember you!

I love pistachios too, yum. They are a great TV snack if you can control your portions because they do take a long time to eat. Unfortunately I'm not good at controlling portions of cashews, pistachios, or peanuts - so the only nut I can keep around is almonds unless I want to spend my whole week's worth of points in one sitting with a can of nuts

Welcome back, glad to see you posting again!