Oh my Goomba...
I don't think it would have mattered one little bit if we were driving or sitting or standing in a crowd, I would have slapped the c*ap out of him! How a person (male or female) can say hurtful, degrading things to someone they are supposed to care about is something I will NEVER understand. You are NOT an object he can F*uk when he feels like it! You are an individual that deserves and DEMANDS respect and love!!!!!
Ok, sorry for the tyraid (how on earth is that spelled??) I had a very bad experience with a man when I was young. And learned very quickly that a man that feels free to use any language with a women is a man that has little respect for them. I have never even heard my DH say f*uck...good Texan boy that he is....I on the other hand, he has referred to as a sailor many times!!!
SORRY.....I'll stop..Goomba...Remember always..you are worthy of only the best!!!
Sorry...I'm going now.....

Hi all !
 

Beautiful tho HOT day in Houston!

I've been trying to sneak in all week! Darn "boss" (DH) keeps getting in the way of my 3fc fix!

Jif~~WTG !!! Congratulations on both the job AND the terrific physical accomplishments! Do you think the new purse helped grab their attention? :p

Scooby~~You should throw yourself a last day (aka I'm Outa Here) party! I'm sure Atilla would attend! :smug: Your baby and azaleas are gorgeous!

Jenni~~Happy Birthday! I hope you have a wonderful day and great visit with your family.

Ruth~~YOU overdo? :lol:

Tippy~~Prayers going your way. Seems you and I just may have the same mindset when it comes to opinions on certain matters! Tell'em straight up.

McMom~~No problem on the suggestion. Wish I'd been able to get it to you sooner. Have you been down there? I love to go. It's so relaxing to sit on the water and enjoy dinner and cocktails!

JHP~~Where are you girl? Hope all is well.

Peach~~I bought craft stuff! Darn you!! ;) Heard from DebK?

Sooner~~Are you getting a boob job? :?: :lol:

L ~~ Knobs and quickies! ???? :s:

Leens~~How's Gracie? And the car shopping? I'm looking into trading off or selling the Suburban for a Jeep Grand Cherokee! The prices are scarey! Think it's going to be a used one! Brother ownes a dealership in SC, I think I'm heading his direction so I get it at HIS cost! :s:

Goomba~~I tend to be a bit outspoken and opinionated when it comes to your type of issue. I've been married more times that I like to admit and have definately developed an attitude where it seems the generalized male population seem to have their "attitudes". (Hey Stacey, in certain discussions I'm right there with you on the sailor thing!) So, I agree with Tip ~~

I do not know why God designed men to have what seems to be a stronger sexual urge than some (or most) females. And without going into a complete tyraid (sp?) and stick to the comments your SHDH made ......maybe he should learn what making love is and not just F**king is! Yes, since I've put on the weight I can sure relate how it has affected my self image and our "intimate" moments. DH doesn't get the couple bubble baths, showers, etc., that we used to enjoy. And as much as he says it doesn't matter.....it does to me. It's about MY (or YOUR) self image and not theirs. Hang in their honey and hopefully you two can sit down under calmer circumstances and come to an understanding. <hugs to you>

Life as usual is crazy around here. I sure wish I could figure out a way to get DD another car as doing running for two households on top of everything else is sure stressing...BUT...must be done. I just remind myself daily to do what I can and that there will ALWAYS be laundry, dishes, dirty floors, etc., so do what I can each day with the real important things in my life. Gods Blessed me with them, I best enjoy them!

My friends Larry and Bonnie aren't doing well at all. Tomorrow will be 3 weeks since their son died and they're barely leaving the house. I sure wish I could do something, anything to make even one day of their grief a bit easier. Cards? Flowers? I know prayers are already there.

Hope everyone has a wonderful day!

J

Thanks
 

You guys are wonderful .. you must think I live on a soap opera set :lol: :lol: Its always something. Maybe I should write a book on my insane life .. oh well.

McMom ... you make me laugh and I would have to agree with you that had I not been caught off guard .. no matter the location .. I would have normally hit some part of his body :lol: I think its not just the words but the overwhelming sence of insecurity that his comment brings. Who knows what is up to in Sudbury .. but to be honest .. I really dont care :) He hasnt even called since I left on Sunday .. humm wonder if he will call when his mother passes :?:

I was so quick to post this morning that I thought I should come back and chat a bit

Jiff - YOU GO GIRL!!! My friend also had surgery and she looks and feels wonderful .. Congratulations !!!!

Jenni - Happy B. Day!!! May you be surrounded by those you love on you special day :hb:

Scooby - Your daughter looks like a little angel on a white cloud .. nice photo .. thank you for sharing

Tippy - Thank you for sharing your experience .. I too would / will be that blunt with my SHDH .. only problem is that he will pack and leave .. he is stubborn oh well.

Ruth - I have been turning the soil and preparing to seed my lawn .. any suggestions??? I have a lady coming to help me with my gardening .. Im not very good at it so I will one day post a before during and after pic .. I hope it works well :D

Hey everyone!
 

What a day! The only thing that is relief is that it's almost PAYDAY!!

Goomba, you don't live on a soap opera set, believe me! Remind me to tell you sometime about my sister who pretended to be pregnant FOR 13 MONTHS! And my ex husband who never bathed! How about my dd's dad, who had 2 women pregnant at the same time and was married to 3 at the same time! Oh, I could go on and on here! We all have our skeletons and yours are similar to lots of women. Hang in there, hon!

Well, ladies, my boobs and I are off to have dinner. Then, my boobs and I are going to have a bubble bath. This weekend, my friend, my boobs and I are going to tear up my front yard for a belated flower bed. Leens, I have nothing growing in my yard except 1 pine tree and 10 thousand varieties of weeds. Well, they do add color! I am referring to my boobs as individuals, as they no longer feel like part of MY body!:lol: All three of us are having a great day!

You chickies just slay me! Why didn't I know you 30 years ago! I am going to print this off and read it during a boring meeting tonight!

Maybe we could start a "Shitheads I Have Known (Biblically)" thread! I'm the oldest so I get to go first!

It is all about getting some!!!
 

:mad: My hubby asked me today at shift change when we swapped vehicles and dd why I was giving him attitude this morning.....TRANSLATION....Why when the alarm went off at 530 this morning and he came to life did I instead get up and make my bladder gladder, shower and go to work, dragging my big butt behind me.....

Sometimes it really gets me down....I haven't hardly seen him lately, sometimes just a hug and I love you is all I want...I guess it is true what people say we are just wired differently.....


One thing is for sure though, if he ever gave me the slightest indication that he didn't want to be here, I would open the door for him and show him the way out...I can barely stand it around here some days and I am pretty sure he is crazy about me, I would never survive if I didn't think he wanted to be here 100%...guess I'll never know unless it happens.

Hang in there folks...life is difficult....but the rainbow always appears after the rainbow...I hope:)

Bye for now

Liz