Ok, for a long time clothes that fit close to the body were "in," and I wouldn't wear them because I didn't like to show off my body.
Now that I'm WANTING to show off my new body, the "style" is big, billowy tops that make even the skinny people look like they're wearing maternity shirts. And stuff like that is literally ALL I can find, unless I'm wanting to wear t-shirts all the time.
Is this a regional thing, or is the "style" like this everywhere?

They have the stupidest styles right now going on in Phoenix.. I tell ya! I'm sure it's just a phase though, and it will pass over time. I think you should just find something that looks good on you...and who cares what the "style" is... As long as it looks good 
I don't like form fitting clothes and for years have worn bigger, baggy clothes and these tops are kind of in between for me. Not baggy because they fit around the top and are just a little baggy around the middle. But not so much that they make me look fatter.