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I'm Outraged!
I’m outraged! :mad: Here I am, drinking my coffee and reading the morning paper and what do I see? An article comparing diet plans (it’s been an on-going series since the beginning of the year) http://www.post-gazette.com/pg/04169/332980.stm. No problem until I get to this paragraph:
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I’d like to point out that WE have many “noted obesity experts” here, such as Karen, Julie, Jack, Beverly, StarPrincess, Mel, myself, and many others who can tell you that it’s very possible to lose weight and keep it off permanently. In fact, we’re all doing it. So there, Dr. Friedman! :p :p :p |
Amen Sister !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Hmmm, I know, apparently since hitting goal in 2001 I should be up to at least 256lbs now, which thankfully I am not. Yes I have gained, but as far as I am concerned my weight gain (of 15-20lbs) is a mind over matter thing (I am finally prepared to work on my inner self which still has a PPFC attitude WAY too often, apparently I was suppose to work on the inner stuff before losing weight, ah well, I like to do things differently I suppose).
I think it's fully detrimental psychologically to print articles like these. Articles like these made me believe when I was overweight (and young and very impressionable) that I would always be plus sized (I am still in the single digits), single, work a crappy job (although I was really smart) and die young. I still exercise. Most of my food choices are good... Don't listen to that doctor.... To all successful maintainers, you have done a fabulous job. Don't listen to him (I know you guys aren't). Maybe he's jealous of people's weight-loss success or is connected to certain special interest groups, who knows. Ali |
LOL Jack! Can we get in touch with the noted doctor? He needs some up close and personal conseling from some true weight loss experts.
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Well I have lost 150 lbs in the past and kept it off for over 10+ years, only to regain quite a bit back, but I do not consider that b/c of genes, I had a major set back in my life that triggered my weight gain.
Dr. Friedman wants these poor souls to think they don't stand a chance, what a crime. Wonder how much he's getting out of it $$$$$$$. |
Leenie: same here... I didn't starve myself to lose weight. I just learned control and focused on my goals... My weight gain is all me, not my genes.
My fear is that article will turn people off from even trying to lose weight. Trust me, I did not end up at 256lbs by eating normally or healthily. I would eat Fast food at least 4 times a week (super size meals with an apple pie for dessert, drink regular coke, down cookies, donuts and chocolate whenever I wanted, ate big platefuls of pasta. I ate huge portions in general. I also barely exercised. That is what got me to 256lbs, I don't believe at all it was my "natural weight". I think my natural weight though is lower than it is now, sitting somewhere around 145-150lbs. |
If this is the same guy who discovered the leptin gene, it is in his personal and professional self-interest to portray obesity as a deterministic, gene-based syndrome over which people have little or no conscious control. Because that view will fuel the grant machinery that pays for his research and his salary. Then if he patents a drug or two that interferes with the leptin pathways, he can promote it as a "cure" for obesity and he stands to become a very, very rich man indeed. As they said during Watergate: follow the money.
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What a thing to say! Geez! As much as I love feeling rare, exclusive and terribly special, how can someone believe that? It's that whole "victim" mentality all over again. Grrrrrrrrr!
Let's go kick him in the shins with our now thin and beautifully toned legs ;) |
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Ali -- that's my fear too, that someone who's overweight would read that and say: "it's hopeless -- noted obesity specialists say I can't do it -- please pass the Krispy Kremes". Look, there's certainly some biological/genetic basis for obesity -- and that may determine our starting point (of course the years of eating crap play a big role too!). BUT that's only the STARTING POINT, not the ENDING POINT. It doesn't mean we can't lose the weight. At the end of the day, it's comes down to me -- it's MY hand that holds the fork. No one else; nothing else. No one's forcing me to eat or tying me down so I can't go to the gym. Like Jack said: if you want something bad enough, you can move heaven and earth to get it Quote:
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Meg: I agree there too... Some people hold onto fat easier (I figure at least I would survive a famine;)) and some people have a hard time feeling full (my response time takes a long while to kick in). Some people will also have an extremely hard time losing weight due to medical conditions too and I realize that. Overall though for myself, I know I made a lot of bad food choices and exacerbated my own tendancy to be overweight (I have been overweight since I was 8).
Some people can only eat 1300 calories a day to maintain, others can eat 2800 cals... we're all different, but if we find out what makes us tick(both physiologically and psychologically<yup, I must include the head stuff>), what calorie load we can handle (and yes it will typically be under the average 2500-3000 calories a day North Americans consume on average), make healthy choices and exercise, I'd say a number of people could get down to and maintain a relatively healthy weight and/or size (I realize though some people need more than this and for them tools like WLS can help). Yup, it's true, some of us do have to work harder at losing/keeping of weight, it's not fair, but it's not the end of the world either. Hearing all teh statistics when I was a kid, it seemed like it was a lost cause.. Then one day, I just realized, hey, I definitely could do better than this and I decided to lose weight. I got my confidence in a writing course I did in University. We had to write a paper about what we know about ourselves and what we were good at (a must do for anyone who's down on themselves, you'll be suprised at all the good stuff you'll realize about yourself). I also do believe that my post-weightloss weight gain is still all me and not genes. I let things get in the way of it... my initial adolescent weight gain was a mixture of genetic tendencies, environment and apathy on my own part (especially after the age of 16). This thread is interesting and Meg if you can find out who funds the research it would be nice to know. Cheers! ali |
That is the biggest load of rubbish that I have ever heard. If that were true then why are there doctors all over the country all over the world for that matter promoting weight loss and the healthy lifestyle!! I am enraged too!! That :censored: telling me that I can't change? Just watch me!!
Where can we send our before and after pictures for this whack job? Michelle |
Seek, you win the gold star!
I found this link about this guy: http://www.hhmi.org/research/investi.../friedman.html Here's the summary: Quote:
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Thanks, StarPrincess! Here's the text of the original article from The New York Times that the quote (in my first post) was lifted from:
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I say he's looking to invent the "magic pill" that everyone's looking for.
We may have to fight against biological signals to lose weight and keep it off, but that's the whole idea of mind over matter. When he says that people "typically err" by about 10% when counting calories - my answer is, it doesn't matter. If, in our error, we managed to lose the weight, there's no reason that we can't keep the weight off with the same error. His suggestion that our genetic pre-disposition works over longer periods of time also doesn't matter, since it's the decisions we make every day that make up the "average over time". If my body starts sending signals over the course of many months that I need to eat more, who cares? Every day, I'm telling my body what it's going to eat, and that amount isn't going to increase (unless, by some freak occurrence, I start getting too skinny). If my body can't convince me on a given day to eat more, I'm still not eating more in the long run. He's either: a) trying to excuse people because he feels guilty that it doesn't take him any effort to stay thin , or b) trying to set the stage to make a lot of money for himself. |
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