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Originally Posted by saef
Maintenance for me seems to be where I've no longer got a goal of losing over 100 pounds, or 50 pounds, or 25 pounds.
Instead I keep losing about five to 10 pounds over & over.
It's a state of mind for me, too. No aspirations to be thinner. Work at self-acceptance at where I am, at least as far as my body's appearance. I do hope to become more fit, but it's less about things being tighter or shifting than about being able to perform certain actions (pullups, consecutive pushups, weights that I can lift).
I echo saef's wise words here. For me, losing weight started with health and somewhere along the way took a detour into vanity (which isn't necessarily inherently bad). I thought I could go lower and lower and somehow reach a magic level of "perfect." But then I realized there is no such thing.
My maintenance journey (saga!) is becoming about keeping the health and fitness I've gained and making peace with the things I can't change, like loose skin, an apple shape, a round face, being short, etc. I'd like to maintain within a 5 pound range, which I am currently over, but that's also more about health and not buying new clothes.