Hi Barbie, good to have you join us
Good luck with starting your new 'GI Lifestyle today!!' I think we're all pretty new at GI'ing so any tips we can give to each other will help.
Daisy, don't get me started on the 'drinky-poos' thing!
It's probably the main thing that has sabotaged my attempts to lose weight over the years. I can easily stick with my daily calorie allowance ... then hubby comes home from work and suggests we have a glass of red with dinner ... but of course, it's never only one glass, before you know it the bottles gone and that's a few hundred more calories on top of my allowance!
Every Sunday we say that we're not going to drink during the week ... but by Monday evening ...
Hubby works very long hours and when he gets home we like to enjoy a drink (or two) and catch up on our day ... I guess I'm going to have to reduce my food intake to accommodate it!
Well done on getting out there for a walk ... doesn't matter how long it was for ... you were exercising!!
I managed to walk for 35 mins but it nearly killed me ... and the dog!!
Wasn't so much that I overdid it, but the temperature last night when I went was 29'c and the humidity level was 86% ... not great for outdoor activity ... especially for someone overweight and unfit!! But I'm determined to keep it up!
So, how do we motivate ourselves? Well, as you've already said, you've managed to do it before (so have I!) so you know that it is possible. We just need to be in the right frame of mind to stick at it. One of the most important things, I think, is that when we have a bad day (or weekend!), we shouldn't feel bad about ourselves ... no one's perfect ... life isn't perfect ... and things aren't always as straight forward as we would like them to be.
There will always be obstacles in our way ... a birthday, someone's wedding, a holiday, or just the weekend! But I think the key is not to get mad at ourselves and think, "Oh well, I've ruined it now so there's no point in carrying on ... I'll start again next week!" That just leads us into the vicious circle of yo-yoing and we never get anywhere ... it's what's I've been doing for years!! A friend of mine on these boards a while ago always used to say, "You are only a failure if you give up completely." ... She lost a huge amount of weight, but it took her years of attempts to finally do it. Well, I haven't given up ... I'll keep on trying, and I know that one day it will happen ... I AM NOT GOING TO BE A FAILURE!
I had a bit of a heart to heart with my hubby at the weekend ... I was feeling really low about my weight. He was very encouraging and said that he knew I could do it and he would help me as much as he can (even though he must be sick and tired of me constantly talking about losing weight and never doing anything about it!). He asked me a couple of simple questions: Are you happy with yourself the way you are? ... Answer: No! ... Do you want to be slim again? ... Answer: Yes! ... Then he said, "Well you owe it to yourself to do it then, you deserve to be happy ... do it for yourself."
What more can I say? It really is that simple when you think about it, isn't it?
Nichola