Julie - thanks so much for sharing your story. Mothers instincts are mostly right and even if its not, better to be safe than sorry. Well now i have some symptoms to look for and if anything seems off its best just to go to the docs.
Nicole - OMG i'm so sorry that your family has to go thru all that. I would be freaking out also. I really hope they are not planning anything sneaky. That is weird that they registered for everything for the baby and your DD name is not even on the registry. When his dad comes over to talk definitely ask him what the plan is on their part. I cant believe that the baby is not even born yet and they are already acting sneaky. Its going to be so hard for your DD if they continue to behave this way. I understand that her ex is still young but his darn parents should have thought him the consequences of his actions and he should man up. He really is being an a$$. I hope your DD realizes that he's being no good to her but i know in situations like these you always hope that everyones heart is in the right place so it may take her some time. I cant imagine how hard it is for you to see your little girl go thru all this & how much harder it must be for her.