Good morning everyone
Phyllis, personally, I think it's okay to let go once in a while on special occasions. Mind you, I'm not saying eat everything you want, but sample what you'd like to taste. There is no harm in 2 or 3 bites of a dish even if it's cooked with butter. After all, this is a lifestyle not a diet.
From my own personal experience, when I don't eat something just because I'm not supposed to then to me it's deprivation. Deprivation = diet. What's the worst that could happen? So think about it, plan ahead and stick to it! That often works for me!
If you decide not to eat those veggies with butter sauce simply because it's unhealthy and you don't want it, then that's fine. You're not depriving yourself. Deprivation is not having something you really want. So be careful, that line can sometimes be very thin.
The JC plan is a lifestyle to bring us to a healthy weight. It's not a diet to make us miserable! There is no rush to lose weight. The important thing is to lose it and at the same time be happy with who we are. Our journey to a new me, should not be about deprivation and frustration! Let's enjoy every minute of the day and every single joy life brings us.
As you can see, I'm in a very good mood today. I feel wonderful lately. It must be because of Spring! The snow is melting and the birds are coming back and are singing! It's so wonderful outside! Have a nice day everyone! Life is too short to be unhappy. Make it a wonderful day today!