Hello Ladies! I too am new.. well, more like a lurker for the past year.. I'm 30, a mother of 4, am 5'7 and weigh 230.. I just started to actually get serious about my weight dilemma on Christmas Eve and have been somewhat exercising.. As for my husband, he says that he loves me just the way I am but is concerned about my health (my mom was diabetic and recently passed due to it

) ... Oh and he doesn't make comments or stare at skinny women.. at least not in the front of me..

lol..
Nice to meet all of you..