I would love to be your buddy, we have a lot in common. I just turned 26 and am in the process of switching from the RN program to the PA program. I am also married w/ two kids, 5 (girl) and 3 months (boy). I have more to lose than you but I have also had a long time struggle with my weight and have got to the point where I am at my heaviest and and disgusted, I'm ready to get serious and get rid of this! I am 6 foot even and weighed 309

at my dr's appointment on Wed., I should weight around 175ish. I am doing the Weight Watchers Points program (I've had luck with it in the past) and my dr just prescribed Meridia for me to help control my apetite. I don't have any magical words but I can offer support when you need it.
Jamie