Hi Melodie,
I understand exactly how you're feeling having gone through the same experience more than once.
It's not an easy thing to live with, it's going to take time to lose weight naturally so you need to accept this and accept yourself, be happy and love yourself as you won't be able to love the world or others without this
Losing weight, getting stronger and being healthier is a great feeling and this will help you along the way
Going against the medical world is always a big taboo, but i will say that the only one who can truly address your problems are you.
Look for solutions from within that don't involve drugs or operations, these won't help you understand and overcome the reasons why you put the weight back on in the first place
It's going to be different for everyone, but one of the reasons i binge eat is due to physical pain. old injuries leave me in a constant state of pain, plus the stress of being overweight simply amplifies this
It might be physical or psychological, it might be something environmental which drives you to binge eat, find it and work through or around it
If you're like me and have issues which aren't easily fixed(or can be fixed at all) then you have to resolve to live with this. Using a crutch like food, painkillers, alcohol, tv or anything else which can be abused to take you away from your problems isn't the answer
You still have the same issues and new ones thank to the crutch
Good luck and remember, love yourself