Hi mlc3409!
Congrats on your amazing weight loss so far! I'm sorry you're having issues sticking to your meal plan, but it sounds like you're doing pretty well at it! Good for you! We don't have any threads here sorted by location (except the very broad UK one), so if you run into someone local to you, it will just be by coincidence, but there are lots of threads here you can join for online support! We have a fitness and exercise section:
http://www.3fatchicks.com/forum/fitness-177/; a calorie-counting forum:
http://www.3fatchicks.com/forum/calorie-counters-172/; a 40-Somethings sub-forum:
http://www.3fatchicks.com/forum/40-somethings-216/, and on and on! Take a look around and jump right in! Some forums and threads are more active than others (you can usually tell by the dates of the latest posts) and you are welcome in all of them! Good luck!