Hi ,
I found this thread by luck I guess ..
long story short I've been dumped bcuz of my weight and fell into depression for two
months iv'e been always a fat girl but that didn't bother me until the man I love
for 2 years told me I don't love you anymore and dumped me for someone
prettier .. Iv'e shut myself down and fell into depression I hate to sound
pathetic but ya thats what happened to me and yesterday after crying for
hours iv'e turned on the TV and saw that documentray show about butterflies
and how they transform from ugly thing to the most beautiful creatures ever
and then I vowed that I will change starting from today I wanna be a
butterfly ...
Mozzy , 03-05-2013 10:39 PM
Welcome and good luck on your journey!!!
Welcome!
Know that you are beautiful and worthwhile. Anyone who dumps you for being "overweight" is A. Not worth your time B. Is probably lying, because he was clearly attracted to you when you guys first started going out. Using shame and threats of being dumped to manipulate people is emotional abuse and you are well rid of this person!
Beauty is subjective. No matter what you look like, there are plenty of people who would be into. Trust me!
Surround yourself with loving and supportive people. You deserve it.
Welcome! I am so glad you found us as well. Your analogy of a butterfly is so fitting of all of us here who are working towards a prettier and healthier goal. After how you described it, I want to be a butterfly too!
Thank SO much I really appreciate ur words and support <3
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