Start with cutting out something like calorie full drinks. That was HUGE for me. It helped me drop 20 pounds pretty quick.
Talk walks, ride a bike, find something that makes your heartbeat fast but that you do not hate. Take the stairs and park away from stores. Once that becomes easier try something else like doing the stairs a few extra times a day or add in a good walk around the mall. Every.little.bit. adds up.
There is not a magic pill or surgery. If you do surgery and you do not change your state of mind and eating lifestyle you will gain the weight back. You have to do the work to lose it. Quit sucks but it is what it is.

I see a ton of success stories on here...maybe stick around and try to find support from some of these great people!