Quote:
Originally Posted by Chellez79
Thank you, ladies for the words of encouragement and the honesty. I think for me, one of my biggest obstacles is going to be my younger sister who lives with me. I've tried to get her to do this with me time and time again, but we both end up slipping back into bad habits. But this time, I'm determined to push past that. In fact, while she's still sipping on sodas, I've had none since Sunday. Turned to water and green tea instead. Now, if I don't die in my first workout (lol), hopefully I'll be on the road to recovery...lol!
My sister is the SAME! She and I do a lot together. Every time I start, I would try to get her to start as well. I finally learned I can't do it for the both of us and would have to do it on my own. What sucks is when they want ice cream and want you to hang out... I'll remind her I'm avoiding such things and get, "Don't buy any then?!" or "ONE time won't kill you..."
It makes it hard. I finally had to put my foot down. Last year I lost 20+ lbs and she finally got it, I was looking better, was serious about it, and she stopped tempting me.
This year she's been a LOT more supportive, and says she's going to lose weight, then she does things like hits McDonalds or gets ice cream... Her life, as much as I want it to change, it's hers.