First of all, welcome!
I'm new here too, and know exactly what you mean. I just turned 25, and feel like I wanna enjoy wearing cute clothes and going out. I just need to lose more before I can, but I have made a pretty big change so far, losing around 45-50 (need to weigh tomorrow, since whenever I start slipping I conveniently forget to weigh for too long) It was almost at -60lbs but I have slipped this past month
Anyway, even with my slip up, I was able to wear a super cute, pretty tight fitting halloween costume, and the reaction I got from a few friends, and a few different guys I hadn't seen in a while, was a good reminder to get back on track.
We can both do it!!