You are right, there are no easy, quick solutions for healthy, life long weight loss but it is attainable and achievable for any and everyone including you!
For myself, I count calories for FREE at sparkpeople.com and I workout with DVDs and hand weights at home for FREE.
You can find information about calorie counting and many other eating plans at the Diet Central here -
http://www.3fatchicks.com/forum/#diet-central
Good luck with whatever path you choose and never ever give up on yourself and your health!!
Hugs
Michelle