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Originally Posted by luckybroad13
Thank you Theresa for your words of wisdom, I have looked into making my own bread but there are much more calories in rice flour than regular flour...I got spoiled to the 45 cal sarah lee bread..was so yummy! I guess in retrospect I have made some wise choices for myself. for some reason I can't or don't commit a hundred percent to dieting..It's hard to admit because I know I am how I am because of my own actions. I know that I am the only one who can change this. and I could end my upset and pain with a few good sacrifices. My will power sucks..my husband and friends are small. They arent exactly good workout buddies. I get so pumped and motivated but it passes quickly, how do I keep that kind of high going?
OK on to motivation.... Will this help? You are only 24 and so young that your skin has lots of elasticity. I don't know if you thought about this aspect of losing weight, but thought I'd toss it out there after watching the Oprah show yesterday.
I don't know at what age or how much weight loss will equal hanging skin, but I would suspect that you can lose 50 pounds and tighten up your skin quite well. I look at it this way. I had three children in my 20's and my abdominal skin went back without any hanging or sagging.
Perhaps this will at least be a motivation not to gain any more weight. Let 185 be your highest weight. It's so easy at this stage to say: "The heck with it," and continue to put on a few more pounds.
Yes, you have made some very wise choices. Yes, you'll miss your 45 calorie bread.
But just by being here, I'd say you are preparing yourself to lose your weight and that's a big big deal. You have the strength as evidenced by what you've accomplished in your young life so far.
You could do this..... Buy a darling little dress or a pair of jeans in the size that you'll be when you get back to the weight you want to be and look at it once a day. Tell yourself that you will fit into it. And you will. By what you wrote you know that only you can do it.
Theresa