[boardchick]

Hi peeps!

Thought I'd introduce myself. I am a mother of 2, of Dutch origin, living in the UK. After splitting from the father of my children some 3 years ago my weight has steadily ballooned.

It started well before we split, due to us not doing stuff as a couple. Living in the UK meant that I had no-one to turn to (my family and friends all living in Holland), so I spent most of my nights in front of the tv with a bottle of vodka, followed inevitably by an extended munch-session!

This continued and worsened after the split, but now I have had enough of all this self-pity and something needs to be done!!

I am desperate to find an exercise partner in my area (someone to kick me up the back-side, when needed), but I'm not putting this up as an excuse anymore and have started a diet today.

The alternative day diet looks appealing (and do-able), so this is my first (up) day, hopefully being able to put a ticker on here in a few weeks. I am going home to Holland with my kids tomorrow, for a wedding and 'Sinterklaas' celebrations, but am determined to start regular swimming-sessions after I come back to aid the slimming process...!!

xxxxx

[k8t]

Welcome! I tried to post a reply to your message, and the silly computer kept telling me that the site was too busy to take it! You have come to a wonderful site. The people here are very supportive. Check out the various threads, there are so many places to find people who know exactly what you are going through.

Again, welcome. So glad you have joined up!

[Onederchic]

Hi and welcome to 3FC. Good luck with your goals.

Hugs
Michelle

[leeway]

Hi boardchick!
Sounds like you're ready to get going -the support you need is here - you can do this - and we'll all be here to cheer you on!

Glad to have you join us! There are lots & lots of different groups and forums - I'm sure you'll find some that will keep you motivated, inspired and entertained! There's also info and first hand advice on different plans to help you choose the right one for you and get through the ups and downs. There's also an active UK forum that may be of interest to you as well.

There are bunches of people here with more to lose and some with less - the bottom line is that we all have to do it a day at a time. The good thing is that we'll have lots of company along the way.

I've only been here a few months myself, having NEVER been part of an online forum. What has been so eye-opening is how much it has helped me. Whenever I feel overwhelmed or defeated, I just log on and read some of the success stories, complete with their before & after photos - or read about others still dealing day to day with their challenges - and before I know it, the time has flown by and so have all the thoughts of cheating or giving up.

So welcome - you 've found the right place - join in by inspiring us and being inspired!

[AR4life]

Hi and welcome to 3FC
You've come to the right place, have a look around and find some groups that inspire you!

[startswimming]

Hi boardchick! I just posted my intro and read yours.....I think we have very similar stories!!!! Good luck on your journey and I can relate to much of what you have said!!!

Liz

[Heidi58]

[boardchick]

Thanks people for the welcomes Just got back, and alas, didn't start the diet (too many yummy goodies at my folks' house lol!!), but today is day 1!!