Hi, everyone My name is alyssamichelle and I am new to this forum. I decided to join for motivation for myself and to help support others in this journey that we are all on. I am just starting out, so this is going to be quite difficult for me. I have a tendency of defeating myself before even starting. But, I am trying to be different this time. I NEED to be different this time.

I have no idea how I got this way. I 'let myself go' as they say. But, deep down, I know there is a skinny girl inside. Let's see...speaking numerically...I am 27 years old, 5'4, 237 pounds, bmi is 37.5 (I think, or 39) and my bra size is 38F (important as I am either gonna lose these boobs naturally or I'm going to have some of them removed surgically).

I looked at myself in the mirror the other day and really saw how fat I am. I think there had to be some sort of a waiting period after having my two kids (4 y/o and 2 y/o) before I could stop tricking myself. I'm not happy with what I see in the mirror or how I feel everyday. So, that brings me here. I'm ready to change. Plus, what I'm going to school for (I go full-time and work full-time, also), I need to be in shape to be able to run, be physically strong, and be emotionally/mentally strong.

I'm being honest with myself and other people now. It's quite scary, but I think that denial has been my biggest feat (besides food and lack of exercise). Anyway, I think I've talked enough for right now. I hope to get to know you all along the way.

Alyssamichelle to 3FC. I'm glad to meet you and wish you well on your journey. You sound determined you've come to the right place for help. see you around the site.

J

Hi, Alyssa. You've chosen an excellent place to find support. Personally, I've found that jumping into a challenge is a great way to hold myself accountable. That, and every day, sometimes multiple times a day, I confess in the Daily Food and Exercise Confessions thread. Another great resource is the success stories and before/after pictures. They're so inspiring.

We have lots of different people, but one thing I find in all of them is they are very supportive. Those who are just starting out and those who have already lost a lot of weight. You've got a great support system now. We'll help you reach your goals.

Welcome and we're glad to have you!

Welcome to 3FC and good luck with your goals.

Hugs
Michelle

Hi Alyssa Michelle!

Glad to have you join us! There are lots & lots of different groups and forums - I'm sure you'll find some that will keep you motivated, inspired and entertained!

There are lots of people here with more to lose and lots with less - the bottom line is that we all have to do it a day at a time. The good thing is that we'll have lots of company along the way.

I've only been here a short time myself, having NEVER been part of an online forum. What has been so eye-opening is how much it has helped me. Whenever I feel overwhelmed or defeated, I just log on and read some of the success stories, complete with their before & after photos - or read about others still dealing day to day with their challenges - and before I know it, the time has flown by and so have all the thoughts of cheating or giving up.

Alyssa, it sounds like you really have your hands full with the kids, work and school but once you get yourself in a healthier and happier place, the other parts of your life will seem less overwhelming. There are many here that are (or have been ) where you are now and understand how you feel - we're all cheering for you - don't let the ups and downs that come make you feel defeated or like giving up - YOU CAN DO THIS!


So welcome - so join in by inspiring us and being inspired!

Hi, I am brand new here too, any pretty much in exactly the same boat as you. I need motivation for myself and my kids. I hope find that here, together!