new and fed up (ha, ha!)

  • hey, everyone...I am 52 and 200 lbs. I have real trouble with motivation. Thinking on swimming as a "new" way to try losing and hired a personal trainer who I then canceled on numerous times. I have 10 sessions left with him. When I work out I do get results, although now I have bad knees and no core strength. I feel this is my swan song. At my age I have to "get it" and work out regardless of my non-existent motivation. I am a child of the 60-70's, immediate gratification is my boondoggle. I almost purchased slimforce7 pills because they said I could lose my 40 lbs. in a month. We all know this is BS. This is my first blog, ever. I am hoping I can keep on talking about my weight until I actually do something about it...I am sad because I have great potential, a positive force on earth, a great lover of life and my weight has caused me to denigrate and criticize myself. Old and repetitive story mine may be but I need help.
  • Hi!!! You've come to a great place for support along your weight loss journey! You can do it!!!
  • Don't be too hard on yourself. We all struggle with this. I am 43 and have been overweight most of my life. Just don't give up. I have found that writing down everything I eat and counting calories is what works best. Nothing is off limits it just has to fit in to my allotment for the day. HTH

    Welcome!!!
  • Welcome to 3FC and good luck with your goals.


    Hugs
    Michelle
  • Welcome And Good Luck On Your Journey!

  • As a 50+ chickie, I can assure you that you CAN do this! And, you can do it without pills

    I love calorie counting with moderate exercise. And, the amazing thing is that it WORKS! Even for this post-menopausal chickie

    Post often, it really does help!

    I can't wait to get to know you better!
  • Encouraged and more upbeat...
    Thanks for the replies to my intro posting. I needed all of your words. I embarrassed my son yesterday by asking him to point out who he thought was a comparable body type to my own so I would have an idea how fat I was...major low moment for both of us. I actually teared up at my desperation and have not stopped chastising myself for my neediness involving him. He was so sweet for a 12 yr. old. Very blunt about looking good for my age and saying all mom's look like me...suffice to say, I am trying to boost my spirits, get motivated, stop whining, start caring about ALL of me, and begin to lose healthily. I feel if I keep up the writing on this site, and learn more about the forums, etc. this will be my catalyst and you will be my be my confidence. Thanks, so much.