Thanks! I'll definitely check out those forums.
Suenami, I am working with a doctor at a place called JumpStart Medicine. It is probably, as far as I've seen, the safest way to approach using medication for weight loss. However, along with medication, they also have the limited caloric intake (so much protein, carbs per day, avoiding a lot of starches, etc.) and recommend 'light' exercise. I go in every week to weigh in, have my body fat % measured, have blood pressure checked.
I probably took it a lot farther than most of the other patients though concerning diet and exercise:
Food: I've REALLY restructured my eating. I've gotten a handle on portion control, which I feel was a large culprit in my weight gain. No moderation. Foodwise, probably the closest thing to what I've been doing would be South Beach in the way I eat. Mostly lean meats, lots of veggies & fruit, nuts, whole grains. I've cut out a lot of the crap that is offered as 'nutritional' food. Yeah, right. Nutritional. How can any of that prepackaged, processed garbage be considered nutritional? With the exception of some frozen veggies and fruits (and Skinny Cow ice cream... the fudge bars ROCK!), I avoid the freezer section like the plague. I try to keep the caloric intake around 1200-1500 per day. My BMR is around 2k, so I figure if I keep it at least a few hundred in the deficit, I'll continue to lose at a steady pace until I get to my goal.
Exercise: I try to work out at least 5 days a week. I started with bellydance and martial arts before I started the JumpStart program. Had to stop the martial arts for a while because my knee started giving me trouble. Gee, can't imagine why, what with being 70+ pounds overweight and in not very good shape. Rejoined the class a few months ago after I had dropped about 50 pounds. Boy was my instructor surprised.

I took regular bellydance classes for about a year, but stopped going to those because the intermediate class focused more on choreography and less on drills... which meant less of a workout. Plus I was getting pressure to perform, and I'm not ready to do that yet. So I started taking the cardio bellydance class... and it kicked my butt! Can't wait to start taking it again, its been on hiatus. Took a Total Fitness class when it was offered... it REALLY kicked my butt. For now I have exercise DVDs I do at home... a lot of bellydance ones, and a yoga one I just started doing. I also have a weight bench and free weights at home, so I started lifting weights again a couple months ago. Used to do a lot of weight lifting many years ago, so it was good to get back in to it.
Once I reach 165 I am going into the 'maintenance' part of the program, which means phasing off the meds. That is going to be tough, but I am looking forward to it. I'm also going to continue to work towards getting down to 155, 25% body fat... or somewhere around there.