Hey Pastewart, and
Have you found our 100 lb club forum yet? It's a group of women who are losing or have lost 100 lbs or more. You might want to check it out...such a supportive group!
You may also want to look at the "40-somethings" forum for daily chat and support threads.
Wherever you decide to post, just jump right in! We're a very welcoming group. I can't wait to get to know you better!