Hey ButterflyBlue, and
Ultimately, motivation comes from within you. Once you make the decision to lose weight, though, it helps a LOT to have a group to talk to, get ideas from, and generally feel supported by...that is why 3FC is so great!
Anyway, whatever plan you're following, you can probably find a group for it here. We also have clubs for different weight ranges (for example, Featherweights who have less weight to lose or the 100 lb club for those who have 100 lbs or more to lose) or different age groups, so you're sure to find a place (or two! or three!) where you're a perfect fit.
Can't wait to see you around and hear more from you soon!