First, you need to change the title of this thread! Start with a POSITIVE attitude- you
can do this, and you need to tell yourself that everyday
Take some time and browse around the site. There are so many different forums here, I'm sure you'll find a place where you feel comfortable. We have age based groups, particular diet based groups, faith based groups, activity based groups...well, you get the picture. Lots of different places to start!
Or there is the general Weight Loss Support forum where a lot of people congregate.
If you want to be a bit more private and introspective, we have weight loss blogs where YOU control the content.
Welcome
Mel