Hi Susan-Marie, and
There are LOTS of places you can post. You may have some depression issues...if so, you might benefit from looking around our "Dieting With Obstacles" thread, in the "Depression" section. Even if you aren't clinically depressed, being unhappy poses different issues in terms of weight loss.
Otherwise, what plan are you planning to follow? We have different areas for many different plans - let us know what you're doing and we can point you to the appropriate forum. Or just post anywhere!
Can't wait to get to know you better.