You might want to check out our "Featherweights" forum...perfect for those who might not have as much to lose as some of the rest of us, because those with less to lose face different challenges for sure.
Otherwise, just keep posting whereever, and welcome! Can't wait to hear more from you and get to know you better.
Lots of moms here--feel free to browse around on the many different forums 3FC has... Do you know what program you are going to follow? I'll bet there's a forum for it!