I've only been here 5 weeks but the support has been tremendous. You have an amazing amount of strength and courage and I am positive you can do this.
My 'aha' moment was recently when I was stuffing my face with something sweet and as soon as I was finished, I wanted more. And more. And I thought to myself, 'when will I ever have enough?' The answer came immediately--never. If I didn't stop the cycle now, I would eat until I was dead. Period.
Setting a mini-goal has helped me tremendously. If I thought about the total weight I have to lose, I don't know if I could keep on working at this. But setting small goals is essential for me. I am 6/10 of a pound away from my first mini-goal and I can't wait to get there!!
I can't say enough how glad I am that you are here. Come often, on good days and bad. Let us support you and cheer you on!