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Originally Posted by JJTx
I already told my July gals but I've had a hard time mentally the past couple of weeks. Like a mental stall or something. Yesterday the scale went up for the second time in three weeks and ive been in a funk. Enter the basket of homemade goodies to our office and I indulged. This afternoon I went online to rewatch some IP videos and try to get my mind back in the right place.
I think a lot of it is the weather (the shorter days with less desire to get up and do something physical) and the season of over-indulgence and general merriment. I don't buy anything that isn't acceptable on IP, but that doesn't mean I don't see all the food and feel tempted.
There are definitely times in the day when I'm more vulnerable to the risk of splurging or temptation - normally in the evenings. Identify your "at risk of giving in" moments and have a plan to do something else. Do you knit, crochet, macrame or sew? Keep your hands busy, or get up and move around until you have distracted yourself.
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Originally Posted by Avalon1957
Hey JJTx,
I totally understand your frustration at scale stalls -- I have that same dynamic. I would get this little voice in my head after a long stall that says ... "What am I killing myself for, I am not losing weight anymore. What's the point." Then I would eat something I shouldn't -- and that would start a "turn" in my weight loss chart -- then it would build on itself and before I knew it, I would be up 5, 10, 15 pounds, or more.
One thing I realized since then is that a stall is at minimum ... "maintenance". And that is a good thing. Even if you are stalled, 235 pounds is still a lot better than 245 or 265 or 300. And by giving up and giving in during a stall, you might be setting yourself up for a backtrack -- and that's just taking you farther away from your goal.
So hang tough and hang in there! And remember a stall at 235 is still better than 245 after a binge -- which will just make it harder to restart and you'll have to spend a lot more energy and money trying to get back to where you were a few weeks or months earlier.
Avalon, that is genius - regarding a stall as maintenance is a brilliant idea. After all, once we reach goal we're going to be happy to see a "stall" on the scale rather than a gain. Thank you for that perspective!
I still have 60-odd pounds to lose and some days I think "just another half cup of broccoli" and have to catch myself. It's not the big splurges that derail us (because we feel guilty about those and aim not to do it again), it's the little deviations from measuring and being honest with ourselves that are likely to be the road to gaining weight back.
Luckily the massive sodium rush from the water additives appears to have dwindled for me and I am losing again. No longer craving sweet food so I think I'm back into ketosis without any of the hardships, and so much more quickly. Just in time, as today is a strength training at the gym and who wants to feel weak and hungry for that?
