14 lbs in 4 weeks is 3.5 lbs per week average. It is definitely in the 15/month ballpark I got my first few months on IP (before moving to 10/month)
I'll tell ya what? I'll trade you. You can have my 90 lb loss and the ensuing long stall that created a need to maintain for a year before getting to goal. I'll take your 3.5/week average. Heck, I'd even trade for consistent 10/month average. I'd trade because I know how to stick to plan and if I could get to goal without a major stall (defined as 4-6 weeks of no change on scale or measuring tape), I'd take it in a heartbeat.
I don't say that to be a b...what I'm trying to point out is that we need some perspective when losing weight. Every week won't be 10 lbs. It just doesn't work that way & we can't wish it into existence.
I affectionately refer to this perspective needed as "attitude adjustment".
To help with this, I'm quoting from today's daily chat
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Originally Posted by kissi
Thanks everyone!! I'm going to stay OP 100% because it is working!! Those 1 lb loss weeks end up leveling out when I stay OP. I also think I should start going into my WIs with a more open mind or at least not get down during those slow loss weeks.
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Originally Posted by lisa32989
Absolutely! This is actually fantastic advise for everyone on this diet
Fat & water go hand in hand in our bodies and usually while losing fat, the last thing to whoosh off is the water. So, even on "slow" weeks, we're still losing...it just hasn't shown on the scale yet. The scale should only be one tool to monitor progress anyway.
If we get discouraged and cheat or quit, it will slow even more or stop. So, since our only choice in moving forward is to stick with it, it is attitude readjustment time!!!
Weight loss isn't linear. You won't see a straight line. If you chart WIs every week, the data points will be very jagged (my wii fit did that for me). But then if you create a trend line, you'll see that the trend is down! If this is your desire, I say stick with the trend.
We all have timelines we want to meet. We need to shelve those. They only cause discouragement. Instead we should be celebrating not only every lb lost but every increment of a lb lost! How long did it take to get in your current condition?
Do you own The Beck Diet Solution book? If not, go on Amazon and order it RIGHT NOW!!! As we are making changes physically, we also need to make cognitive changes that will result in us learning to maintain this weight we are losing.
We only feel as good as we allow ourselves to feel. So changing a defeatist attitude to one of celebration changes your whole perspective. You lost weight! You are losing weight! What could be bad about that???
In the meantime, I suggest joining the 100% thread and sticking 100% to the sheet. This is the group where I see the most consistent progress and the most people reaching goal.
Also, re cardio: Take a walk! That's all the cardio you need right now. Not even a power walk. Just walk 20 minutes after dinner each nite. It does amazing things for our bodies when done consistently. Have you added an extra (80 calorie) packet after each weight training session? I hope your coach said to do that.