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Originally Posted by nursebrenneman
Emotions and things and life have mentally prevented me from actually starting the IP diet. I did it for a solid 2 weeks a year ago. 6 days last week and it went great. Have had a couple of "bad" days. Stress, emotions, etc. The same ol' problem that is always my excuse. I need to get this started and stick with it. I know there are some many good things that come with it besides the weight loss. (Restart my pancreas, lose the cravings, etc). Anyone have any tips, advice, encouragement?
I have been on many a diet, as we all have. I've learned many, many things about myself in the process, which is one positive, to having tried and failed at so many diets. The main thing I've learned is that LIFE will always be there, with its many happy times (reasons to eat) and many sad and stressful times (reasons to eat). The house must be cleaned, the kids must be cared for, our parents need help, our pets get sick, money is tight, bills roll in, our husbands get cancer, our loved ones die... but rather than look at those things as a reason to put taking care of yourself off another day, week, month (which could become years -- my son is 12 now), commit to doing it with the knowlege that all of those things, will be so much easier to handle if you are happy in your own skin, and can look forward to the activities that relieve stress (like dancing, biking, horseback riding, hiking, shopping) -- when you have lost the weight. Anyone who knows me, knows how many things in my life are stressful. My job, My mother. My husband. My animals. But I'm not alone. Everyone has things -- big things -- they are dealing with on a daily basis, and those things are a reason do improve your life, not an excuse to let it get worse. If you don't have your health, you have nothing. The time to do it is today. Food is food. Nothing more. It is not an activity. It is not a "thing to do." There are so many more ways to celebrate thing in life, then sitting down to a big plate of food. Going to get an icecream. Having a snack. Going out to dinner. The sooner you get started, the sooner you can look back and say "Wow? It's been 2 weeks..2 months... 6 months already ?" Do it, and then come back on here every day, and read about all the people who believe in and live IP, and get the encourgagement you need, once you start. This site is one of the reasons I got the courage up to do it in the first place. I went to an information session 6 months ago, and just committed to it less than 2 weeks ago. Good luck and I hope you find the encouragement you need in my post, or one of the many others.